From the desk of Rex Mortar:
I’m Hank Mortar, and I’m a University-educated redneck. Prevention is the best medicine. But if you play with fire you’re going to get burnt. Here are a few things to remember when you first start dating:
Dating is not a recreational activity. It is a mutual job interview for the position of spouse.
The male is attracted to female attributes that belie genetically superior reproductive and infant-feeding potential.
There are no beauty “secrets”. Some people are just more attractive than others.
The female is attracted to male attributes that belie potential for leadership, adventure, conquest, domination, rule and potency.
Dating in high school is fraught with danger, because males that age lack the experience required to lure a quality mate.
A girl should never initiate contact with a male, nor pursue a male, because female desperation should be kept private. When the girl pursues the boy she gives up what little leverage she has to begin with. Any guy will go for a sure thing. Only a commitment-oriented male ready for a wife and family will risk initial rejection and then use it to his advantage.
Females should date exclusively only after receiving a marriage proposal and a diamond engagement ring worth two-month’s of the man’s income. If the guy can have his cake and eat it too, he’ll never propose!
Sex during an engagement transforms an engagement ring into a prostitute’s wage.
Males should not date girls who have sexual experience.
Females ought not even mention males from the past. If a woman has dated extensively, what’s wrong with her? How many guys decided against proposing to her?
Girls should not allow themselves privacy with males they are not related to. If not the near occasion of sin, what is the purpose of privacy between potential mates?
Do not take a girl on a date to a Roman Catholic church sanctuary to recite the holy Rosary. WHY? because a man devoted to the eternal blessed mother of God turns a woman on more than anything else in the Universe! WHY? Because the eternal blessed virgin is pure and spotless. If the woman can lure a man who has a heart for spotless purity then she must be pure and spotless too.
Fornication is like lighting a fire on your living room carpeting. Intimate relations within the bonds of sacramental matrimony is like lighting a fire in a fireplace.
Neither man nor woman ought to be vain regarding physical attractiveness, but rather should humble themselves all the more, because their Creator has blessed them with the priceless gift of beauty. Vain beauty is an oxymoron.
A girl should remain a virgin until her wedding night. Otherwise, the guy will never propose. If the guy ever does decide to commit, he’s not going to commit to the girl who cohabitated with him for three years. He’s going to move out one day while she’s at work, and find a fresh virgin who passes the chastity test.
Guys find most attractive that which they think they can’t have. Guys value most what they work for. That which is thrown at them is treated as so much dross.
The female should be chaste, and obedient to her father’s God-ordained masculine authority. Such a prospective bride is blessed with a fertile bounty. She will make a fine, obedient wife who will bear many healthy, strong offspring for the man.
Every first date leads to a happy, life-long marriage filled with ecstatic love, and an endless litany of selfless acts done on behalf of the other; or it doesn’t. If a girl plans on intimate contact outside the bonds of sacramental matrimony, she will be heartbroken at some later time!
A woman doesn’t want to bear children before marriage. So, she uses birth control, which chemically sterilizes the fertile womb, so she can be used as a barren receptacle to sate the man’s primal urge! A man who permits a woman to be used suchwise—without regard for her feminine identity and purpose—does not love her. If he ever does commit it will be only for a time.
With birth control the man suffers loss of masculine identity, because he sows the barren plain. Thus, his seed produces no fruit of the womb. He has nothing to show for all his toil! The female loses feminine identity and purpose, because she produces no fruit of the man’s seed.
The loss of gender identity creates confusion and resentment in both man and woman. Without the truth the couple can only guess at the source of strife, so they project their resentment onto more obvious issues. Until they get to the real problem things will only get worse! Then, what could have become a fine marriage between two decent people turns out to be a broken relationship.
God created the man to mate multiple females. So, the guy usually just finds some other girl. But God created the woman to mate one man exclusively. A woman who has had more than one guy inside herself, save that all but one have died, has the same chance of happy marriage as she does finding Elvis living secretly in the Mojave Desert and shaking hands with Darth Vader the same day!
Now, how to remedy heartbreak … God did not intend there to be heartbreak. Heartbreak over love relationships is due to the following:
Fornication (sex out of wedlock) and divorce. That’s it. Until the heartbroken realize that they have sinned they cannot heal, because they cannot obtain forgiveness. So, they project blame outside of themselves and onto those they perceive to be at fault! The looming threat of heartbreak provides incentive to use the reproductive system properly.
Most marriages where the bride was a virgin on her wedding night last until death. Most marriages of soiled brides end in divorce. Don’t believe sex surveys that advance outrageous fallacies. I’ll give you an example:
One survey claimed that most men think five or less previous sex partners is permissible for a bride.
Now, where did that come from? It came from a survey question.
How many previous sex partners would be permissible for your prospective bride?
30 to 40
20 to 29
10 to 19
5
So, there you have it. Since zero would be most men’s honest answer, the men who completed the questionnaire chose the nearest to zero that they could.
Most people would not voluntarily complete a sex survey, because even to contemplate the questions is nauseating. So, sex survey results apply to those sufficiently reprobate to complete a sex survey. Those people are in the small minority of the population. It’s like taking 100 people wearing red sweaters and asking them:
What color sweater are you wearing?
Blue
Pink
Green
Red
If a person can find the truth (s)he can be healed, because truth will set you free! God is truth. Heartbreak is more serious for some people than others, because only those with a true capacity for love, commitment and personal sacrifice can be heartbroken. People who are basically into themselves and what they want; those who view the lifelong part of marriage as optional; cannot form the type of bond required for true commitment.
Guys are mostly like that! Most husbands are not aware when they become truly committed to their wives. After a man has children he truly commits. So, a woman who waits to have children is married on borrowed time. The man plows and sows the barren plain, but his efforts produce no fruit of the womb!
That’s bad for masculine gender identity and ego! It’s also bad for feminine identity and purpose. The natural function of the female is to love the man, please the man, serve the man, to bear and nurse the man’s offspring, and to submit to the man’s yoke in cheerful obedience all the days of her life.
My view of women really turns them on, because it’s truth from the heart of God!
Feminism leaves the woman without reason to live, because she is not aligned to God’s will for her. There are those who promote the notion that most women ought to be on birth control except for brief periods to have one or two children. Population explosion they claim.
The world’s population initially grew more quickly during the twentieth century, because advances in medicine and sharing of rational advice extended lifespans in many areas of the world. But that is a one-time occurrence. Population growth will even out again. If we subscribe to the population-control pundits, mankind will be extinct by 2053 A.D..
The population-control zealots subscribe to it mainly to justify use of birth control in their own relationships, and to indict Roman Catholic doctrine as incorrect; at least any doctrine one personally finds difficult to observe.
But the opponents of the church pass into oblivion from age to age, while Mother church is vindicated in future generations. The church rejected the findings of the Paris physicians regarding the cause of the plague of 1348 A.D.,
“The plague is caused by a certain astrological constellation three years previous, in which three planets found themselves in the same zodiac, which is only now causing the earth to release poisonous vapors.”
Hundreds of years passed. The plague is now known to be caused by microorganisms. The Pope recommended sitting between two fires to prevent being struck by the plague. And he was correct. The infecting pathogen is killed by temperatures slightly above body temperature, but also above the temperature of a high fever.
A fever is not caused by invading organisms. It is caused by the body itself as a means to fight infection, because many disease-causing microorganisms die in temperatures only slightly above body temperature. And this method of fighting illnesses works to kill both bacteria and viruses.
A long time ago people thought fever was bad. A person got a fever, became ill, and either the fever went away or the person died. The person recovered because the fever went away. But in truth, the fever went away because the person recovered. This prompted people to treat the fever, which, to a certain point, is usually the worst course of action.
Heartbreak can make the body very ill, because justification of sin makes the body physically ill. The heartbroken lover should confess his/her sins to a priest during sacramental confession.
By confessing to another person the sin is shared. One can truly call his own that which has been shared with at least one other. To be forgiven one must make her sin her own. This is done by confessing it to another person.
It’s the same idea as musicians taking on pupils. The musician makes his skill his own by sharing it with others. College professors do the same with knowledge. Those aren’t sins. But sin works the same way. The sinner becomes accountable, and it is this accountability that makes divine forgiveness possible.
If the sinner has a good excuse for sin, God gladly grants an excuse, agreeing that the sinner had a valid reason to commit the sin, or that another person(s) was to blame. It is only for sin which the sinner is to blame that (s)he can obtain forgiveness!
Let me stop and make note that God expects no one to be perfect. God expects people to want to know Him for who He is. Sin blinds the mind to truth and the heart to love, making impossible to know God, who is truth and love!
God asks each person to acknowledge their sins, confess them with their mouths, claim atonement by the precious blood of Jesus, and to repent from sin. But it depends where you are as a person.
All you need to do is resist temptation a little bit longer each time it comes. If you fail in the end, do not hide it from God. If you allow God to observe the sin, He will explain where the temptation comes from, why you find it difficult, and how to use His grace to overcome it. The final thing to avoid is the near occasion of sin.
There’s no harm in enjoying the beauty of God’s creation, including the sensual beauty of the virgin. But to manually relieve one’s self in the midst of temptation caused by placing one’s self in the near occasion of sin, breaks God’s unspoken promise made through the sensual beauty of the virgin; a promise of new life in the image of married lovers and in the image of God!
Breaking God’s promise to one’s self brings with it intolerable conflict (God’s promise has been broken, but God cannot break His promise) which brings forth violence. Lust is the only sin that brings forth murder.
One defense against future heartbreak is the adoption of male chauvinism, or feminism. For most of its existence the human race has been patriarchal; that is, led by males. Roman Catholic influence resulted in many opportunities for females.
For the first time women could receive forgiveness of sin, without confessing it to their husbands. Previous to Mother Church, the man confessed his sins to God, and the woman confessed her sins to her husband.
This was because the woman sins by sensual pleasure, and no father—much less the woman’s heavenly father—will hear his own daughter confess sensual pleasure. Since the woman’s marital pleasure is the cause of evil in the world, the male who hears the woman’s confession is prompted out of his God-given generosity toward the female, to expend considerable effort placing his intimate gift of masculine love and forgiveness at the opening to the woman’s Fallopian tubes.
So, traditionally the woman confessed illicit pleasure only to her husband. After hearing his wife confess sensual pleasure, the man is highly motivated to offer his forgiveness, for two reasons:
The woman obtains divine forgiveness manifested as new life in her guilt-laden, but contrite and repentant womb. There could be no greater sign of divine forgiveness than new life in the image of married lovers and in the image of God; new life the woman can call her own!
Feminism sets the woman in opposition to her only possible source of forgiveness. Since the man’s penis is the woman’s ultimate source of forgiveness, and because males suffer no sensual guilt, acquisition of masculinity is the devil’s promise of liberation from sensual guilt.
Deep inside herself the woman knows she cannot have a penis. But at the same time, she knows she can have a penis deep inside herself! So, feminist diatribe is in truth an encoded mating signal.
It’s a cry for a guy to pin the feminist’s demure, feminine form beneath his hard, masculine physique—to ignore her dignity, person-hood and protests—and to use her fertile body to sate his base, masculine urge. If the woman doesn’t give consent, the pleasure isn’t her fault. She can just enjoy it without the guilt!
Feminists and sodomites seek opportunities to explain to an unfortunate girl—a week after the fact—that she should stop dating her boyfriend, because he raped her. Their just trying to ruin the fun for innocent girls. 88% of high-school students believe that forcing a girl to have sex is not rape.
We see that the definition of rape depends upon the relative innocence of the individual defining it. The feminist laden with sensual guilt purveys rape under the most broad criteria. The increase in sexual assault over the last thirty years is due purely to its expanding definition. Reality has not changed!
Male chauvinism is simply adoption of what has worked in the past to preserve the human race. The male chauvinist believes:
Males are more capable than females at almost everything.
All evil enters the world through the woman.
Feminine emotion must be governed by masculine reason.
Idle hands are the devil’s tools!
An idle womb is Satan’s playground!
The doorway to Hell is a washer on spin cycle!
Pregnancy cures PMS.
Many heartbroken people attempt to advise others as a means to obtain healing. This is the natural way to recover from any emotional trauma. But unless divine forgiveness is obtained, the bereft are left in a broken state. In the broken state the grieving do little more than justify their own sin, because the foundation of recovery for those who justify themselves is to advocate their own sin and to blame others for the consequences of their own decisions.
More than a few divorced females adopt a stance against masculinity, or they attempt to acquire masculinity, because males suffer no sensual guilt. The feminist suffers guilt for sensual pleasure. So, she becomes jealous of who she is not—the man—and hates who she is—the woman!
Satan uses the promise of liberation from sensual guilt to drive the gender-equality movement. But male-female equality can happen in one way only:
The lover beholds his love object. Her beauty is breathtaking, and her innocence so pure. Surely she must have the sacrifice of blood and water within her to atone for sin held as genetic mutation in the man’s reproductive chromosomes!
The lover places the virgin’s innate requirement for security and commitment above his own base drive, elevation her person-hood above his passion, making of her a true equal to himself, because her loves her more than he loves his own body.
This is the man who will offer his life in defense of hers; the man who values his wife’s chastity, purity and innocence, because the obedient wife is free of guilt. The chaste, obedient wife is blessed with a fertile bounty!
Heartbreak is that prospect which encourages use of sound wisdom in the choice of spouse. Many men and women are utterly destroyed by it. But if divine forgiveness is obtained, healing is possible through giving truthful testimony regarding painful errors. Admitting ones errors and offering sound alternatives to our cherished youth covers a multitude of sin.
To honestly share authentic recovery in an instructional way is to complete one’s own healing. You don’t own it until you share it.
In the unhealed state the brokenhearted may adopt one or more of the following fallacious stances to avoid being hurt again. These are all strongholds of evil designed to enslave, not free, the broken heart.
All men are the same. They never change. They’re not worth it. Everything is the man’s fault!
Men are the only things that prevent perfect families.
All men do whatever it is that hurt me, or whatever I don’t like, because they’re big, dumb jerks!
Anything that at least two feminist agree on, or at least one feminist and one effeminate male homosexual agree on automatically becomes truth.
All women are gold-digging sluts.
All women want is good DNA for their kids. After they have the man’s seed they can use the feminist court to divorce the father of their children.
All women secretly plot murder against their husbands out of spiteful wickedness.
Everything that comes out of a man’s mouth is a lie.
Everything that comes out of a woman’s mouth is a lie.
Which prompts me to share some heartwarming verse.
Males, males, males must die, die, die!
All they ever do is lie, lie, lie!
In my kettle he’ll bubble, bubble, bubble;
Hair and beard turned to stubble, stubble, stubble!
I trapped him last night, oh what a fright!
I have to hold the lid down tight.
He stopped kicking; I think he’s dead!
Now it’s time to lop off his head.
That’s the part I’ll eat first;
And toenails and eyeballs for dessert!
OK kids, time for bed.
The heart and soul are made sick by deceit. They are freed to heal others through divine forgiveness. It is God’s plan to wipe away every emotional hurt we receive, so a bud can form in the heart and grow into a beautiful flower that can be shared again and again. It’s beauty that heals; true beauty.
It is not a sin to divorce or to be divorced. Dating is also not a sin. But it is adultery for a divorced woman to marry another. She must be reconciled to her husband or live alone, because marriage is inseparable except unto death.
If a divorced man remarries, he must receive an annulment from Mother Church if he wishes to return to the sacraments. The divorced woman may also then remarry. But if the divorced man is unhappy, his divorced wife cannot move on with her life! If she remarries before her husband does, tragedy will follow.
The woman’s subsequent union is without God’s blessing. We don’t need to look far for proof of this.
Problematic with dating is exclusive dating before there is an engagement, nor even talk about commitment. In the natural course an engagement is blessed with support from family, so fornication will be avoided.
There you have it. The (2) causes of heartbreak, a divorced woman’s illicit union, and fornication (sex out of wedlock).
Mankind was created to create beauty. Reproduction is an act of creation. Married lovers create new life in their own image and in the image of God Himself. Sensual guilt can blag a woman down. What greater manifestation of divine forgiveness could there be than new life created inside the woman; new life she can call her own!
Couples break up because they rob each other of gender identity. Spousal abuse is for two reasons: in the case of the battered woman, the male provides corrective adversity designed to teach the woman to stop sinning! To prevent spousal battery from a male batterer to a female victim, the woman should observe the following:
Practice Roman Catholicism as prescribed according to Roman Catholic doctrine. Included in that is that she have privacy only with males who are related to her. Modest dress and demeanor are pleasing in God’s sight. Wear no jewelry found offensive to Christ. Reserve intimate contact to within the bonds of sacramental matrimony. Avoid birth control. All intimate acts must be open to creation of new life.
Practice the sacraments, including the sacrament of penance! One of two things will occur. The man will leave the woman, or he will cease punishing her for sin. In this day and age I find it appalling that males still use physical violence to teach their wives how to behave. Isn’t it a lot easier to use words?
“Honey, when you use birth control or perform godless perversions of the female reproductive act, you prevent the use of your body in a way pleasing to God. The woman was created for the man, from the man, to love the man, please the man, serve the man, to bear and nurse the man’s offspring; and to submit to the man’s yoke in cheerful obedience all the days of her life.
“I’m concerned about the final destiny of your immortal soul. I want you to live a full, rich, rewarding life after which you enter into the glory of God. I think the safest bet for you is to practice Roman Catholicism.
“Everything is included that you need to get to heaven! Then, I won’t need to beat you as punishment for your sin.
In the case of a female batterer, she’s trying to tell the guy, “Pin my demure, feminine body under your hard, masculine physique. Ignore my protests and person-hood! Use me as flesh to sate your primal urge! If I don’t consent, the pleasure is not my fault. I can just enjoy it without the guilt! I’m going to act up in increasingly outrageous ways until you get me pregnant!”
OK, so we don’t need to separate couples who abuse each other. That’s Satan’s plan! Just a bit of education is all it takes to end the horror. But abuse-prevention advocates don’t want to stop the abuse. They want to use the government to gain control over males, so they can sate their lust for vengeance against masculinity!
If they wanted the abuse to end, they would teach chastity. But if the abuse problem is solved, thousands of man-hating feminists will be out of a job, and out of government funding for institutionalized male-bashing programs.
You can’t blame people for ignorance. You have to educate them. Otherwise, you’re part of the problem! I love women. I don’t strike, shove, grasp or restrain females; because there’s this new thing called civilization! It hasn’t really caught on in the middle east, but it’s popular everywhere else, mostly.
In Korea they use matchmakers to arrange marriages. A billboard read, “Guaranteed you will find a wife with us. If she runs away within the first year, we’ll replace her!”
Isn’t that special. Korean men want foreign wives, because then they don’t know the language, so they can’t make a police report or really communicate with anyone. Such wives are easier to control. But does any man actually want that level of control?
Isn’t it more fun for a guy to make a woman want him? I mean, who wants a wife who thinks about killing her husband while they have intimate contact? I don’t know about most guys, but for me personally, I make love only to women who love me!
You know, I’m an attractive, rugged-individualist, alpha male. I know what I want and how to get it. And I never try very hard. I like teenage virgins who have large, firm breasts; small, round bottoms; slim, trim waists, flat tummies; slender, taut, tanned, toned legs; attractive faces, giggly voices, piercing eyes, pouty lips, bright white teeth and a little pink tongue.
WHY? Because I’m attracted to women who still have available the first fruit of the womb. WHY? Because I’m masculine and I understand the unspoken language of sensual beauty. God created the woman to communicate an unspoken promise to the man, through her sensual beauty.
The man’s reaction to the naked virgin is simply anticipation to create new life in the image of married lovers and in the image of almighty God! I join only to fertile women. If I talk to a girl, it means I want her DNA to be part of my child.
The media industry promotes friendship between men and women who are not related. There’s no possible reason for a man to speak with a strange woman, except that they have nothing in common. I consider it a blessing that males and females share nothing in common!
Now, the most pressing question of the second millennia, “Why do guys like large, firm, well-formed, pointed-up breasts? Breasts are for nursing babies. The man subconsciously desires that his baby nurse on the girl’s spectacular breasts.
Spectacular breasts are spectacular because they are large: more of them; firm: higher mammary (milk producing) content; well-formed: sufficient genetic diversity; pointed-up: unused, virginal, first fruit of the womb is yet available.
In order to accomplish his baby to nurse on any particular breasts, the baby must also belong to the owner of the large, firm, well-formed, pointed-up breasts. Hence, the male mating response to the woman’s outward sign of genetically superior infant-feeding potential.
What about the other man or the other woman! Cheating sucks. If a guy doesn’t want to make himself available exclusively to his wife, he shouldn’t have married her! But if the guy wants to have a child with some other girl, he should be up-front and honest!
The woman does not fear the other woman! She fears loss of trust in her man. When the woman trusts a man, her brain releases oxytocin! This produces a sense of well-being and security.
Males naturally mate multiple females during their mating years, but females naturally mate exclusively for life. The woman requires trust for her happiness. But there’s nothing wrong with a guy mating other women. The two criteria are that the concubines are virgins when the man meets them, and that the man have sufficient wealth to support them.
Those two things being satisfied, after the legal wife’s childbearing has come to an end, the man must inform his wife that he would like a fresh virgin, so he can continue to reproduce offspring. Then he must allow his wife to meet the prospective concubine. If the wife approves of the girl mating her husband, she can continue to trust him, because he is honest.
The wife’s security is not disrupted, because she can still trust her husband. If the guy is middle-class, he can’t afford to support concubines, so he is not entitled to them. The wife is most upset by the man’s slick job of lying! What else doesn’t she know about?
So, don’t lie! Here’s an example:
“Honey, I’m bringing a guest for dinner tomorrow.”
“Really, who?”
“I want it to a surprise.”
“Oh really.”
“OK, I’ll tell you. You’ve gone sterile from age, but I want to continue siring offspring. A nineteen-year-old, blond virgin would make me happy. You want me to be happy, don’t you?”
“C’mon, what would the two of you talk about?”
“Talk is overrated. The important thing is that we have nothing in common.”
“This is absurd! Do you think I’ll just agree?”
“Just wait until you meet Bambi. Afterward you can decide.”
“BAMBI! I suppose she’s a professional bikini-contest contestant!”
“UH, yeah, how did you know?”
“Just a lucky guess. I don’t want some drunken bimbo tanning naked by the pool while she drinks us out of house and home!”
“OK, I’ll agree to that. Then it’s settled. You two will make great friends. You couldn’t buy insights like she’ll be able to give you!”
I’ll give some practical advice on recovery from heartbreak. Heartbreak is not inevitable. Not everyone has to go through their first heartbreak, because their no inevitability to heartbreak! For those grieving the death of a loved one, some grief is natural.
For grief caused by loss through death, there’s two things to remember:
The grief of the living ransoms the souls of departed loved ones from Purgatory. Ordinarily, grief abates after six months or a year, because the departed soul is with God! Persistent grief indicates the departed didn’t quite make it. They’re still suffering! Grief is a share in the torments of the departed!
The most common cause of persistent grief is proclaiming the innocence of the guilty. If a person died in serious sin, it is not rational to proclaim they are with God. The one who does this becomes guilty of the sin they deny in others! The proper course of action is to resolve persistent grief; to cleanse one’s own soul, preferably through sacramental confession and holy communion.
After a specified period of grieving, and a time of repentance from one’s own sin; the one afflicted by long-term grief may make an offering that (s)he feels is generous, light a votive candle for the departed sinner, so (s)he has a light burning in heaven, and ask the holy Spirit for guidance.
While kneeling before the votive candle, the holy Spirit may lead one to stand in the gap for the departed. For a departed suicide victim, the grieving would say, “I take responsibility for my son’s sin of killing, and I claim the Perfect Living Sacrifice of Jesus to atone for my sin.
Let the holy Spirit lead the heart to any other sins of the dead loved one that need atonement. Do the same with those. It is a great gift. Do not take it lightly. Give gratitude to the Almighty, for His mercy is above all His works.
But there’s one more step. After atonement is obtained through the Precious Blood of Christ, petition God The Father on behalf of the departed sinner, that they may be admitted into God’s presence! The rest is up to the departed soul. If they can tolerate God’s presence, they will remain. If the light of truth overwhelms, the soul will depart to live in darkness.
Either way, the grief will disappear.
Truth reveals that all breakups involve sin. In cases of fornication (sex outside of wedlock), frequently the female fails to use her body in a way pleasing to God—to bear and nurse the man’s offspring, preferably manchild. Therefore, the woman sins.
God made the man and woman to be co-creators of His Own image. Unions not open to new life are neither open to a true capacity to love. Birth control robs the woman of her fertility, and she experiences the sensation of being loved for the pleasure she can give, but not her natural function to reproduce the man’s image. This frequently causes disruption in a relationship, because the woman is deprived of her feminine identity and purpose.
We have a world in which women don’t know who they are. They’re being fed a steady diet of lies from Satan, some of which are listed below.
Male-female equality; Satan’s idea of male-female equality only drives the feminist movement, which is the road to Hell! True male-female equality can be obtained only through the chastity of the woman.
The lover beholds his love object; beauty so breathtaking and innocence so pure. Surely she must be the blood sacrifice of innocence to atone for sin held as genetic mutation in the man’s reproductive chromosomes.
He places the virgin’s innate needs—security and commitment—above his own base drive, elevating her person-hood above his passion, making of her a true equal to himself, because he loves her more than he loves his own body. This is the true essence of male-female equality. If the girl has sex—or any form of intimate contact—before her wedding night, she is being used as flesh to sate the man’s primal urge, and becomes soiled in the process!
The man might treat such a woman well before marriage, because there is no expectation of chastity. But marriage itself brings with it the expectation that the bride was chaste. If she had pleasure on her wedding night, she has wounded her husband’s love for her. He will never love her the same way as he would a virgin bride!
Before a girl contemplates having intimate relations, or any form of intimate contact, or even privacy with a male she is not related to (because what is the purpose of privacy if not the near occasion of sin); she ought to consider that without marital commitment the guy can just walk away, no strings attached!
The girl who been abandoned by her partner in fornication has a serious impediment to securing a happy marriage: no other man can call her his own! She’s already had some other guy inside her, and he is long gone.
The bride and groom bring their most valuable possessions to their wedding, as their gifts to each other. The bridegroom gives to his bride his name, that his children will be called holy and blessed. The bride gives to her bridegroom her innocence, that her children will be called holy and blessed, because they were conceived of a holy sacrifice.
The virgin releases blood and water when she is pierced by her bridegroom. The water from the virgin biologically consecrates her marriage bed for creation of new blessed life in her holy and chaste womb.
The blood from the virgin seals the biological blood covenant of marriage between Almighty God, Who gave the virgin her sacred release and sealed it safely with her;
The virgin’s bridegroom, who assumes the position of conquest over the surrendered virgin, and sends his invading army—and army by which the virgin shall conceive—into her unexplored intimate territory;
And the virgin, whose blood sacrifice of innocence atones for sin held as genetic mutation in the man’s reproductive chromosomes.
The blood and water released from the Sacred Heart of Jesus, as He was pierced by the Roman soldier’s lance, are the eternal realities of which the blood and water released by the virgin, as she is pierced by her bridegroom, are the temporal reflections.
Therefore, the virgin belongs to her bridegroom, and Jesus belongs to Rome. This was once a great mystery, but before that it was intuitively obvious to even the most casual observer.
Marriage in the natural sense is a biological function of the human female. There are three marital contracts: natural, religious and legal. Natural marriage is governed by nature, and the release of the virgin’s blood sacrifice of innocence consummates it.
Mankind lacks authority to alter the terms of natural marriage. It is governed by God, and it remains until the death of at least one spouse. Religious and legal marriage are not required for the validity of natural marriage.
Religious marriage is governed by the church. The Roman Catholic Church elevated marriage to a sacrament, confirming that marriage is sacred. Before that marriage was purely a legal affair to confirm that a certain woman’s children were legal heirs to the man’s estate.
There were far too few men to supply every virgin who wanted a husband, so most males first established a line of heirs by legally marrying a woman of proven birth, that is, a woman who was born to a legal wife; the legal heir to a freeman’s name.
Daughters born to concubines became concubines themselves, and were kept as servants in the man’s household.
The son’s born legal heirs inherited from their fathers. The sons born to concubines became servants, without legal claim to their father’s name.
Women had no say in who they would marry. Assuming both the man and the virgin were of proven birth, if a man expressed an interest to the parents of a virgin who had come of age that year, and there were no competing suitors, the girl was betrothed to the man.
Servants also married, but the master of the estate approved servant’s marriages. Now we have girls choosing their own mates! What a horrible job they do! The primary source of heartbreak is bad decision-making in regards to use of the human reproductive system.
If someone did everything wrong, fell into the trap, and came out of it heartbroken (maybe suicidal), the potential for emotional pain had built up over period of time. Sexual relationships outside of marriage break easily and cause heartbreak.
But the pain is caused by years of sin. Simply put, those who are prone to sin have a genetic mutation that causes a surplus of monoamine oxidase (mao). Mao breaks down the monoamine protein dopamine which is responsible for sensations of reward.
The surplus of mao reduces the effect dopamine in the reward-trigger nerve synapses (tiny junctions between nerve endings). The dopamine is gone before it has been in place for the fraction of a second required to induce the reward sensations.
Sin produces a sudden spike in dopamine, which is why vice proves easy in its infancy. This produces counterfeits to the reward sensations, below preceded by the authentic reward sensations.
Love, lust
Peace, exhaustion
Joy, mirth of fools
A sense of well-being, intoxication-euphoria
A sense of accomplishment, getting away with sin
To those who have deviated to sin at a young age, the counterfeits are convincing as proof that the key to happiness lies in the practice of vice!
The sin causes a spike in central nervous system (cns) dopamine levels.
Counterfeits of the reward sensations are experienced by the sinner.
A cataclysmic plunge in dopamine levels results.
That causes the sensation of guilt.
The sin is repeated to alleviate guilt.
But the second time the sin is committed the dopamine spike is less, and the ensuing plunge is deeper. After only a short time the sinner must commit the sin to break even on the amount of dopamine (s)he had before the sin began! At this point, without the sin, dopamine levels drop to a point of despair and hopelessness; a mood that frequently induces suicide. This is the root of addiction. The person can recover, but the dopamine must be given time to rise naturally.
The fastest way to raise dopamine is to receive the sacrament of penance! The Catholic Church has done humanity the courtesy of describing in plain terms those behaviors that cause dopamine levels to insidiously drop (insidious: when adverse signs first appear, the damage is pernicious), making the sinner vulnerable to death. Such behaviors are called, sin.
Through faith in the perfect living sacrifice of Jesus; that it is sufficient to atone for all sin for all time, and by making one’s self accountable to another, confessing sin, and accepting divine forgiveness; the the nervous system is opened to holy Spirit, Who works through the body’s spiritual interface to correct the spiritual manifestations of low dopamine, which then causes the physical component of the nervous system to in turn correct itself.
The low dopamine is the manifestation of guilt for sin, a sufficient intensity of which mutates reproductive genetic material, suchwise that offspring who inherit the mutation are afflicted by surplus monoamine oxidase, which predisposes the offspring to commit sin, according to the divine edict documented in the holy Bible, book of Exodus, ch.20, v.5
. . . For I, the LORD, your God, am a jealous God, inflicting punishment for their fathers’ wickedness on the children of those who hate me, down to the third and fourth generation;
People didn’t know about genetics when that was written. So, they didn’t know that God used human genetics to carry out His immutable edict. Ancestral curses are simply the guilt for the sins of dead ancestors inherited by living descendants, through DNA.
Breaking curses is difficult to do properly. Usually there is a short period reprieve, but just like winning in a fight at a bar, the opponent will return with stronger guys to defeat his opponent. So, you have to avoid bars for a while. That’s how demons are.
So, repentance is critical. If the accursed are delivered, but they lack the sincerity and motivation to abandon the ways of sin, or they fail to maintain contact with God, they will end up enslaved to more powerful affliction from which deliverance is more difficult.
Here’s how it works. Forgiveness of sin is a one-shot deal. If there is an ancestral curse involved, the blood lineage must be purged of spiritual pollution. Frequently, homes belonging to the accursed are filled with unholy objects that must be identified and properly neutralized and disposed of. Read the book, Protecting Your Home From Spiritual Darkness.
All sin is forgiven. If one confession can purge all guilt for sin, then one repetition of a past sin can bring all the guilt back. However, after rejecting Christ’s forgiveness there is no further means to obtain salvation.
If one understands that despair is caused by arrogance, and suicide is simply a manifestation of arrogance, then the sinner can examine honestly the cause of the heartbreak, become accountable, confess, and receive forgiveness!
The nervous system may be damaged to a point that the sinner finds unbearable, or which causes strange and/or maniacal behavior. If the sinner’s ability to handle emotions is exceeded, the psyche will protect itself by fabricating a reality of perception that reconciles the external world to the internal, in a safe way.
That’s OK, as long as it doesn’t become a way of life. Everyone has an explanation for their emotional pain. The primary function of religion is to explain, and heal from, emotional suffering.
Arrogance teaches those afflicted by suicidal ideation, that nothing can be done to solve the problem at hand, which means happiness is impossible, which makes life pointless, which makes death the only reasonable option.
But, the problem was ultimately caused by the potential victim’s sin. Suicide is a consequence of sin, even if the sin is lack of faith in God’s mercy. The first thing to do is admit the sin. Illicit sexual behavior is a sin. It causes unhappiness.
Intentionally drinking to intoxication, or using drugs in excess of the prescribed dose, purely to obtain the side-effect of euphoria, are both sinful! These lead to despair, hopelessness, despondency and death!
In a day gone by it was difficult to survive long-term cyclical patterns of intentional sin, because the resulting consequences were sufficiently dire and without remedy, to deter the sinner from further sin.
In problematic relationships there is some unnatural behavior. Use of the reproductive system in ways that are not open to new life is sin. No intimate relationship can survive if it is based on mutual sharing of sin! The gender identity of each person is greatly diminished because the reproductive act fails to produce the natural result.
Declining masculinity and femininity are not manifest as increasing femininity in the male and increasing masculinity in the female. They are both manifested as inability to give and receive love is a healthy way, and that includes the ability to forgive!
Forgiveness is not of human origin. To forgive one must receive forgiveness from God. That in turn allows one to forgive others. This is not a natural human trait. It is a trait of God given to man through divine forgiveness.
It is unlikely that any marital relationship will last a lifetime without faith in the Judeo-Christian God and His dearly beloved Son, our Lord Jesus Christ; or without beating women into blind submission to abject tyranny, as in Islam.
If a woman suffers battery at the hands of a spouse or lover, the simplest solution to prevent further abuse, either at the hands of her present spouse, or a future spouse, is to blame herself. That sounds foreign to most people, but it’s only because they have been fooled. The solution to the problem brings light to the subject.
The woman who is treated badly need only observe the following to gain relief.
Pray for her husband, and not a bunch of excuses. The wrong way to pray:
“God, my husband beat me again. But it’s only because he was raised differently. OH CRAP, he’s moaning again about the green worms floating through the air! I’ve got to give him more booze, so he’ll pass out, or he might try to burn the house down again!
“OK, God, he’s safely unconscious again. You know, there’s a lot of things I do that make me need a beating. He always says he only beats me because I need it. If I just learned how to listen, he’d probably quit beating me, because I wouldn’t need it.”
So, that’s the wrong way. The right way to pray:
“God, I give You all honor, glory, praise and thanks due to your Holy Name. My husband is a lousy, stinkin’ drunk. The poison has driven him to insanity. He treats me like dirt for no reason! I make no excuses for him. But I want him back in a sober state. I have full faith in Your infinite mercy, not only to him, but to me also.
“Give me back the man I married. I pray that You will have mercy on our family! As a token of my faith I resolve to practice Roman Catholicism starting tomorrow. I will stop performing godless perversions of the female reproductive act. I will use my body in a way pleasing to God: to bear and nurse the man’s offspring, preferably manchild.”
If the beaten woman starts practicing Roman Catholicism, her partner will either leave her or stop beating her.
OK, why do guys go out right away and find some other girl, but the girl doesn’t need to find another guy right away? The guy is after a physical relationship that does not depend on who the person is. God has made no provision for the female to lose her mate before death, so the situation is totally foreign to God’s creation.
hankmortar 