What Produces Rape Culture ?
Rape Culture describes an environment in which male rapists thrive on disenfranchised female rape victims. As the word ‘culture’ implies, it is a systemic problem with elements throughout the entire social, economic and political spheres. Some of the possible causes are:
- Joking about rape, trivializing gender-based violence (social normalizing of violence against women)
- Patriarchal indoctrination in obsolete gender-role stereotypes from an early age, which produces a subservience mentality in women and consequent dependence on men
- Long-standing patriarchy entrenched within the educational system and workplace, producing lack of opportunity for women to reach equality and become independent
- Lack of affordable childcare services, producing dependence on males
- Patriarchal laws that discriminate against women, i.e. legal restrictions on abortion
- Lack of government-funded, community-based self-defense training for women
- The influence of television programs and movies that depict strong men victimizing weak women indoctrinates females into a resistance-is-futile mentality in rape situations.
- Patriarchal indoctrination exerts silent but powerful control over women’s bodies, robbing them of the autonomy needed for true gender equality, and preserving the invisible restraints that keep women from positions of power and leadership in the socioeconomic sphere.
- Misogynistic stigmas associated with single motherhood
- Patriarchal misogynist religious shackles thrust on female sexuality
- Victim blaming/shaming creates further victimization, i.e. Was she drunk? What was she wearing?
- Apathy, neglect and blame in the legal system and medical establishment
- Failure to teach men not to rape
- Presumption by the legal system that victims are mistaken or lying, assuming false/erroneous accusations
- Cultural attitudes of male entitlement to and control over women’s bodies
- Masculine stereotypes of initiative, competition, authority, adventure, conquest, domination and rule
- Feminine stereotypes of cooperation, relationship, passivity, domesticity, nurture, submission and obedience
- Lack of respect for women, male chauvinism (view that men are intrinsically worth more than women)
- Patriarchal, misogynistic degradation of women
- Willful ignorance to the pervasiveness and devastating effects of rape
- Denial/ignorance of what constitutes rape
- Minimizing the problem of rape
- Entrenched and antiquated beliefs regarding gender roles
- Outdated legal definitions regarding what constitutes ‘consent’
- Wide gap between the legal definition and socially accepted definition of rape
- Lack of incentive to report rape
- Outdated moral values persist to keep victims shamed and silent
- Social isolation of victims due to the effects of trauma caused by rape prevent reporting
- Insufficient community resources to assist rape victims
- Slut shaming/bullying
There are many mistaken beliefs in regards to rape, and these are part of rape culture:
- Women have rape fantasies, which means they actually want to be raped.
- A woman’s ‘no’ actually means ‘yes’.
- If there is no genital penetration, it isn’t rape.
- If the man doesn’t climax, it isn’t rape.
- Rape is illegal, but forcing a woman to have sex is permissible.
- Women ask to be raped by their appearance and behavior.
- Rape is no big deal if the victim knows the guy.
- It’s not rape if the victim knows the guy.
- It can’t be rape if the victim and the guy had consensual sex at time(s) previous.
- The victim gave consent by being naked in bed with the guy.
- The victim gave consent by permitting herself privacy with the guy.
- A woman feels slutty giving verbal consent. She wants to be taken silently, especially if she resists, in the man’s rapturous frenzy stirred by the victim’s sensual beauty.
- The victim will get over it in a week or so.
- Marriage is a license to rape.
- Lack of a clear ‘no’ is an affirmative ‘yes’.
- Failure to scream and fight back indicates consent.
- The victim’s biological response to the rapist indicates consent.
- Date rape is usually consensual at the time. It’s only later, when the victim wants vengeance for being dumped, that it becomes nonconsensual.
- Rape is defined solely as: a male stranger overpowering a female victim by overt threats and physical violence; penetrating, and climaxing inside the victim’s reproductive tract, and leaving marks and bruises on the victim.
- Drunken sluts deserve to get raped.
- Women need to avoid being raped.
- Rape is the victim’s fault about half the time.
- Only drunken sluts get raped.
- Immodest dress, use of alcohol and drugs, and being out late at night cause rape.
- Rape is shame upon the victim.
- Rape is masculine. Boys will be boys.
- Rape is actually a contact sport.
- Sometimes a woman seeks rape to expiate guilt for past sexual behavior, and/or to prevent guilt in the present act.
- Silence indicates consent.
- A woman’s gives valid consent under threat by a man to end a relationship, to leave her homeless, to leave her without transportation or communication, to deny critical assistance, or to withhold financial support she has come to depend on.
- If she consents to sex, she consents to get pregnant.
- If she’s old enough to go to the store, she’s old enough to get bred.
- Sometimes a guy inadvertently rapes a woman.
- Rape is sometimes a simple misunderstanding between victim and perpetrator.
- It’s not rape if the victim doesn’t immediately separate herself from the rapist at the earliest possible opportunity, or if the victim continues to date the guy for a while.
- Rape victims always appear hysterical.
- Most rapes are reported to police, and are resolved within a few weeks.
- Rapists rape because they have too much testosterone.
- Rape is the result of uncontrollable passion.
- Rape is motivated by the male reproductive drive.
- Most people don’t know anyone who is a rape victim.
- The solution to rape is prevention.
All of the items, and some I probably inadvertently omitted, in lists 1 and 2 above, create the perfect storm for rape! The gist of it is: the perpetrator gets what he wants at the expense of the victim, who is left seriously traumatized with long-term emotional suffering and fears that prevent her from moving forward with her life. The victim is blamed, and the perpetrator is congratulated.
If the victim reports the rape, the police start questioning her as if she’s on trial for being raped! If she can live through that injustice, she then is taken to a hospital to be violated again as the staff gathers evidence from intimate areas of her body! The police and medical staff lack empathy and understanding, treating her like a piece of meat in a stirrup chair! They offer zero emotional support! It’s as if the victim is reliving the abuse she suffered at the hands of the first cold, unfeeling heart she met that night!
If the victim gets pregnant, but doesn’t realize it right away, in many states she will be legally forced to give birth to her rapist’s child! Now she’s saddled down for the next 18 years, unable to better herself and become independent. She’ll wind up dependent on some guy who just wants a maid he can jump on to when he comes home drunk, and who is willing to work for room and board!
Does that suck or what!? Which is the better way to prevent such outcomes? First option, teach men not to rape. But what does that mean? From a feminist perspective it means assume that all rape accusations are true. If every accusation is true, no trial is necessary. So, based on a rape accusation, the police can pick up the offender and take him straight to prison, forever. But then victims would always be murdered. And, only hookers would be welcome anywhere near males.
All non-rape sex would be by prostitution, and all children would be conceived In Vitro, by unknown fathers. All families would be single-mother families, leaving women to support and raise children, keep house, and work full-time, without help! Men would be free to run the world, perform the demanding, high-paying jobs, drink beer, watch sports, screw hookers, and hang out with the guys! Women would be necessarily excluded from any premises where males were, because of the hazard women posed to males!
But what is at the very root of rape culture?
List 1 are actually some of the symptoms, not the causes, of rape culture. The root cause is abandonment of Christianity! The second list really has nothing to do with the problem. It’s just a series of red herrings to draw attention away from the real problem.
Let’s try to figure out what has fundamentally changed since the 1920s A.D., when we didn’t have a rape culture, to produce a rape culture fifty years later, beginning in the 1970s.
In the 1920s, seeking to increase their popularity with married women, and therefore increase their incomes, certain medical doctors began publishing books on the subject of love and marriage. Those books were appropriate for the era, with one exception: these doctors made the claim that wives must be satisfied in the bedroom, that it is due to a medical condition that they are not, and this is the cause of failed marriages. Anatomical drawings were used to instruct husbands how to please their wives. For the first time medical practice intruded into the bedroom!
Since 1975, to the present time, men compete with each other for who can give women the most pleasure. They share sex secrets about women, and consider it an assault to masculinity if a woman fails to climax! That should have really lowered the divorce from 2% in 1920! But instead the divorce rate is twenty-five times higher now. Is it possible that doctors could have been wrong?
In the 1920s, publications treating of reproductive anatomy as pertains to sensual pleasure were marked on the inside leaf with something to the effect of,
“Keep away from minors! For distribution only to legally married adults! To be dispensed only by licensed physicians or practicing attorneys!”
The books cost about $100 if adjusted for inflation to 2019. Meanwhile, Mother Church was condemning such books as not fit for Catholics! The Catholic Church at that time taught that the woman’s marital pleasure is sinful, and that matrons should perform penance as atonement for this sin, as it could not be confessed to God The Father, because no father will hear such a confession from his own daughter!
Laws against wife-beating were enacted, greatly multiplying female sensual guilt, which had previously been expiated by corporal punishment. Kinsey, et.al., produced research studies that examined sexual behaviors of the average American. The researchers could find no test population in which a sufficient number of participants were willing to complete a detailed sex survey.
Rather than abandon the project, Kinsey used prison-inmate populations. Prisoners were willing to complete the surveys. So, Kinsey’s report contained an analysis of the sexual habits of convicted criminals, including flashers, serial rapists and pedophiles! The research conclusions were contrived such that the American public of that era could accept them without questioning their validity.
Many People in the United States adopted sinful behavior—the sexual habits of criminals—as the new normal! Masturbation was deemed normal, out of which later grew the pornography industry! In todays day and age, children are erroneously taught not to be ashamed of masturbation, because it’s a natural part of life.
If masturbation was not shameful, it wouldn’t cause shame! The male act is forgivable, because it indicates the male requirement to inseminate a fertile female. But a willing female can seldom be found on such short notice.
In females the act is always filthy, because it indicates the female requires a male to inseminate her, and willing males are always readily at hand. And, the female reproductive drive is only one-tenth as strong as the male’s.
In response to Kinsey’s findings, coupled with the influence of popular culture at the time, one of the measures of masculinity became how much pleasure a man could give to a woman. Totally misunderstood was why the woman’s pleasure frenzied the man during intercourse. The man is made to prevent evil from entering the world.
The woman brings evil into the world. The man is raged on by the woman’s pleasure, because the man wants to complete the act and get the woman pregnant. The faster the man completes the act, the sooner the woman’s pleasure will cease, and the less evil will enter the world. After the woman is pregnant, she no longer requires mating contact, so the problem is solved for nine months.
This can be verified by the fact that even viewing images of a woman giving herself pleasure will arouse the man to inseminate her, because he wants the woman to get pregnant, so she stops bringing evil into the world.
The Church condemned Kinsey’s findings as: pertaining to the average American sufficiently reprobate to complete a detailed questionnaire that would cause decent people to vomit! And, the Church is now vindicated in it’s judgment!
Just as when Mother Church condemned the finding of the U.S. Supreme Court that defined the value of each black male as three-fifths of a white male; and each black woman as equal to each white woman, a value which was legally set at zero; the Church is correct in every instance of conflicting morals!
Largely in response to the public acceptance of the Kinsey research on human sexuality, and to make itself appear modern, in 1959 A.D., the Catholic Church ceased its teaching on the sinfulness of the woman’s marital pleasure, and began work on drastic revisions of the understanding of Church doctrine—called Vatican II—to better fit in a modern world!
Regrettably, this work was largely influenced by Satan exploiting fear of masculinity found in the hearts of those who have same-sex attraction, including many Catholic Bishops! It was later said by Pope Paul VI, in response to, among other problems, the ratification of The Second Vatican Counsel documents,
“Through some fissure the smoke of Satan has entered the temple!”
At roughly the same time, birth control became available in tablet form. Almost immediately it became the number one type of drug in the United States. Then, almost simultaneously, Helen Gurley Brown, who would become the editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine three years later, wrote and published, Sex and The Single Girl, an expose describing the ideal life of young, single women in terms of love, illicit sex and money!
Brown said, “Good girls go to heaven. Bad girls go everywhere!” She has been described as both a feminist and an anti-feminist, because on the one hand she promoted independence for women, but on the other, she advocated that women use sex to get ahead; just a twist on prostitution in which the woman uses sex as a kind of universal currency she can trade for whatever she can get!
Brown did not account for the fact that a most single girls of the time desired commitment, marriage and family, making the independent boy-toy a scarce—and therefore valuable—commodity who was compensated for the illicit use of her body according to supply and demand. Today, there is a bumper crop of girls, even teenagers, willing to engage every type humiliation for the sake of male attention!
One-night stands, sex camming, working in the porn industry, prostitution, promiscuous mating and/or working as a stripper are empowering to females, because it’s by her choice! Anything that is the woman’s choice is empowering! Due to that lie, the supply of sex-pots is abundant, available within an hour or two, no strings attached, all via a smart phone! So, todays single sex-pots have to really work to survive just selling their bodies!
Deceived to believe that Christian marriage was a dwindling possibility, girls doubled down on their error, and began pursuing males with the strategy to make males fall in love with the pleasure a girl can give! Rather than selling men on their innocence and virtue, women began acquiring and advertising sexual skills.
But before that social change happened, the pornography industry created the new breed of hooker: models who were sold like meat—through images—to sate the man’s primal urge! But most men of the time had a mother and/or a sister who they viewed as persons, not objects. This produced males who were at least capable of viewing a woman as a person. Today, children of single mothers call sixteen different men ‘dad‘ by their eighteenth birthday! And their sisters are thots slutting it all over town by age fifteen!
By 1965, moral filth was pumped into the living rooms of America through broadcast, and later cable television. The holy name of Jesus was squeezed out of media content, causing minds to darken, and emotions to take over!
Phil Donahue’s thought-provoking, intellectually satisfying, life-enriching and edifying television style was supplanted by Oprah Winfrey’s intellectually worthless, emotion-based drivel, because the resulting mental darkness increased the audience’s susceptibility to advertising, causing them to make senseless buying decisions based on emotional criteria, increasing advertiser’s income, thereby increasing the value of advertising slots, and increasing the income for broadcasters and media-content producers!
After the American public was indoctrinated in moral depravity, and conditioned to use emotion-based decision making, the mass media began a subliminal campaign to destroy marriage, because the security of marriage ruins perfectly good consumers!
The drive to attract a desirable mate is the king of all purchasing motivations. Destroying marriage means everyone will always fear losing their mate, and so will be on the lookout for something better than what they have, which drives the sale of everything that makes people more desirable for sex, greatly increasing income for wealthy capitalists.
Mass media preyed on female insecurities driven by a natural desire to increase ones valued as a potential bride. Girls and women were inundated with images of models who displayed the outward traits of genetically superior reproductive and infant-feeding potential. This caused almost universal insecurity, that, even to this day, drives the work-out, beauty-product and fashion industries!
Women were objectified as sex objects in popular culture, and males were pitched hot bikini models in advertising. Popular music from the 1980s to the present glorified fornication, promiscuity, drunkenness, drug abuse, raping, beating, and even killing women! Girls became insecure to the point that they began throwing themselves at boys before they were even in high school!
This led to an entire generation of soiled women that men would not marry, because they were getting what they wanted without commitment or moral restraint! The resulting heartbreak, sensual guilt and failure to use their bodies in a way pleasing to God; caused their consciences to be seared! They no longer had a proper sense of sexual morality!
The female suffers guilt for sensual pleasure, called sensual guilt. It is caused by unnatural mating—when no offspring are conceived. If a woman has experienced sensual pleasure, the children she bears will eventually grow old and die. If the woman is mated according to nature—only when offspring are conceived as a result, and never otherwise—the children she bears will be direct genetic descendants of God Almighty; children who will live forever!
So, all human death is the womans fault! That is the root of sensual guilt. Regardless of whether or not the woman is conscious of it, the guilt is there, because it’s genetically based! If it isn’t dealt with, it comes out as the attempted acquisition of masculinity. Males suffer no sensual guilt, so theoretically, acquiring masculinity (male-female equality) should bring liberation from sensual guilt. At least that’s what Satan is feeding to feminists!
The woman cannot approach the throne of God to confess sensual pleasure. No father will hear his own daughter make such a confession, much less her Heavenly Father! So, God has given the woman to the man in marriage, so she can receive the man’s intimate gift of masculine love and forgiveness inside her sinful but contrite fertility. What greater manifestation of divine forgiveness could there be than new life in the image of married lovers and in the image of God Himself?
When she delivers her child, she bears agonizing pain as God turns His face away from her during labor, because of her sin that brings death to all! But after she has suffered, her guilt is expiated, and God looks down from heaven with favor upon His daughter who has brought new life into the world! The woman experiences this as ecstatic joy as she gazes upon the new life she can call her own. By using her body in a way pleasing to God, she is reconciled to Him!
We can prove this is true. The woman who conceives by the man, who knows only the woman’s natural share in the pain of atonement of God The Son, but never the man’s share in the ecstasy of creation of God The Father; shall give birth without pain, because she has committed no sin.
Women of the Twenty-First Century have abandoned Christian morality, sterilizing themselves into warm meat for empty acts of male-lust gratification! Nothing could be more dehumanizing! She kills the most beautiful part of herself: her fertility; and does it voluntarily!
Female beauty is displayed by chastity and obedience, because the woman shows her piety in this way. The woman obeys the man as if to Almighty God! Yet, the matron does not sin against God, only against her husband.
The female who sins by disobedience to father or husband remains in a state of sin until she becomes obedient once more. No decent man wants to marry a virgin who disobeys her her father, because it is written, “Like a gold ring in pigs snout is a fair woman with a rebellious disposition!”
I’ll prove it! Look at any woman who lost her virginity to her husband, and who then divorced the man against his will. You will find universally that such women are miserable, because until they kneel at their husbands’ feet and confess their rebellion, they remain in conflict to God! If the woman is no longer capable of conceiving offspring, she can’t receive forgiveness, because the man’s gift of masculine love and forgiveness will bring forth no fruit from the womb.
The woman who obeys her father brings honor to his name. She will make a fine obedient wife to a man God calls friend. Such a man will not find himself in the company of a singing or dancing girl, lest he become ensnared in her wiles! The woman shows her obedience to God by her obedience to her father or husband.
Outside of Christian culture, women are treated like dirt. If we get rid of religion for the sake of women’s rights, women’s rights become purely symbolic: empty words. According to the finest minds studying the subject of rape culture, the ancient world was one giant pit of injustice toward females! But I question the motivations of those sufficiently interested to pursue such a line of study.
Even if we could understand every ancient practice regarding women, it wouldn’t bring us closer to solving the present problem. It only supplies feminists with dead targets for blame. It’s not enough to indict every living male as a misogynist, because that’s not what feminists truly desire. When indicting the male population fails to sate the thirst of bitterness, they reach into the past and indict every male who ever lived. When that fails to sate their lust for vengeance, they indict masculinity itself as evil.
Every feminist truly desires to be loved in a way she believes she deserves to be loved. Feminism is a disguised mating signal that manifests itself outwardly as the desire to have ones own penis. That’s why feminism is more aptly referred to as organized penis-envy!
If we look at the ancient world, we see that laws were advisory. Most crimes were settled between the parties involved. In the event there was no eye witness, there was no point to pursuing the matter further. Violent crime was handled by the male family members of the victim, many times including the victim himself.
The book of Genesis chapter 34 is clear on the seriousness of rape. When Dinah, daughter of Jacob and Leah, was raped, the perpetrator, a king, did so because he wanted her as a bride. After he had raped her, he pleaded with her father and brothers to let him take her as his wife, but to no avail.
Jacob’s sons used a guise. They told the king and his father that it was unthinkable to have their sister married to, and living among the uncircumcised. To have Dinah as his wife, every male in his clan must be circumcised. The king agreed, and the brothers gave Dinah to him.
The men of the clan were circumcised. On the third day they were still in much pain. Jacob’s sons armed themselves and advanced upon the city. To defend their sister’s honor, they killed every male in the city, and took their livestock and everything else of value, leaving only orphaned girls and widows to be captured by marauders, who would sell them as servants! Without the threat of retribution from a woman’s male family members, anyone could do anything to her.
In ancient times there were no police. If you wanted to the offender present during a trial, you had to track him down and drag him there. In the event of treason, insurrection or other threats to the government rulers, soldiers could be used to apprehend the offender, who could be kept in a dungeon. The penalty for practically everything was death, for lack of prisons.
In the case of rape, if the victim was found complicit, her life was not worth living due to the stigma and ill treatment she would endure. If not put to death, the victim would be killed by the townspeople. If she chose exile, she would starve to death.
Marriage was extremely important to women in the ancient world. A married woman didn’t have to tend her father’s sheep ten miles from the nearest latrine, in the baking hot sun, under threat of marauding gangs! It was a primitive world. Virginity was highly valued because a man wants a bride he can call his own; a bride that the man taught the virgin’s pain of atonement to, and released her blood sacrifice of innocence.
So strong was the genetically imbued desire to have a wife who had never had another man inside her reproductive tract, it made virginity the most valuable asset of a maiden! This genetic trait is still found in most men today. That’s why males in their teens to mid-twenties defleur virgins like there’s tomorrow. But when they want to marry, they pick from the crop of fresh virgins, and guard the chastity of their prospective brides. Past conquests failed the chastity test, so each man continued his search for a chaste bride!
There is no denying that males are wildly turned on by a girl who’s never had a man inside her reproductive tract. Her unexplored intimate territory begs for conquest by his invading army—an army by which the virgin shall conceive!
The woman’s body was not legally controlled by anyone else in ancient times. It was controlled by circumstances in the world. Literacy was almost unheard of. Food was scarce. Jobs for women didn’t exist. So, although each female was technically free to go her own way and make a life for herself as a soldier or huntress, she ran a greater risk of being sexually victimized.
Such women usually lived isolated from cities. If a warrior happened to see her, traveling by foot on his way to stash his loot with his family, he would simply take her! If the man was a great warrior, the woman would be grateful for his seed, because she would bear a child who has warrior attributes, capable of procuring fortune in war, providing security for his mother in her later years.
But the woman always insisted that the man be made comfortable before he had his way with her. She would bathe him, which made things much more tolerable for her. Imagine a guy who’s been fighting a war for six months, and hasn’t used soap in that time. To put off the inevitable for a bit longer, she fed the man, and insisted he be well rested. So, that put it off until at least the next day.
A crafty woman could put the man off for two weeks, by making herself look homely, dressing in rags, and/or diverting his interest to eating and lounging. But holding off a masculine warrior who hasn’t had a woman in six months or a year, is like holding back a cattle stampede. Inevitably, no matter how slovenly the woman made herself, the man preferred her the way God dressed her anyway!
The man would generally stay until the woman missed her estrous period. After the woman had conceived, the man would find a big rock, dig a hole in the ground, fill it with weapons of war, and put the rock on top. Then he’d tell the woman, “When our son is able to lift the rock and retrieve his father’s gifts, I shall return to teach him how to use them.”
It wasn’t that the ancient world was against females. Men placed a high value on women! And they still do! It’s only disturbed criminals who rape innocent females (matrons and maidens)! Trashy girls who dress immodestly, and who allow themselves privacy with drunk males they barely know, late at night, even drunk themselves, under the notion that they can control the situation, with no male willing to protect them; get raped because God has genetically imbued within the hearts of such males to administer corrective adversity designed to show the woman her error, and so other girls can learn to remain chaste.
Any judge must view the legal system as a deterrent to crime. Every time a convicted rapist gets a slap on the wrist, or an accused rapist goes totally free, it creates a deterrent against women engaging high-risk conduct. I didn’t make the system. But that’s how it works.
The reason victims blame themselves is because they feel guilt after being raped. When the experienced woman is forced, the genetically programmed guilt for every illicit sexual act she has performed is revealed! Victims are to blame for every previous illicit sexual act minus any rapes! Unless the woman is taught that her past consensual intimate encounters were sinful, and that is why she feels guilt, she will attribute all the guilt to the rape, and blame herself for it.
There’s good news, though! The victim can find a husband, kneel at his feet with her head veiled and bowed in reverence to his masculine likeness to Almighty God, and confess all of her sexual sin, in number and type. Then, she can say, “I’ve been a naughty girl! I need a firm masculine hand on my small, firm, round bottom!”
I’m not advocating wife beating. Only if the wife verbally asks for it. Punishment will expiate sensual guilt from the woman’s heart, bringing closeness between spouses, and opening the woman to receive the man. Punishing the sinful wife stirs in the male genetically imbued generosity from God, prompting the male to expend considerable effort to deposit his intimate gift of masculine love and forgiveness inside his wife’s sinful but contrite fertility!
When the woman gives birth, she will be filled with divine forgiveness, because she used her body in a way pleasing to God. He created the woman be the man’s equal; to please the man, serve the man, to submit to the man’s yoke in cheerful obedience, and to bear and nurse the man’s offspring, preferably man-child! The woman found pleasing to her husband is a happy, fulfilled woman. God wants everyone to be happy, women included!
This next thing might sound sexist, but it’s not. To keep the woman from evil, she should busy herself with tasks of love for her family, because idle hands are the devils tools! She should also bear offspring on a regular basis, because an idle womb is Satan’s playground!
During her season of fertility, the wife who forgoes childbearing for more than three years, will inevitably stray in search of another mate to get her pregnant. This is a disguised mating signal most commonly manifest as threats of divorce. In the event of that, to keep the family together, the man should get his wife pregnant!
A pregnant woman rarely leaves the father of her child, because she getting what she wants. The man’s natural function is to place his seed inside the woman’s fertile reproductive tract, thereby inseminating her uterus. The woman’s natural function is to conceive, bear and nurse the man’s offspring. If either spouse cannot perform his/her natural function, the marriage will be unhappy, save after the wife has passed through menopause.
If a girl won’t have children by a certain guy, she shouldn’t have sex with him. And that goes for males too. If a guy doesn’t want to have children by a certain girl, he should not have sex with her. The whole point of sex is reproduction!
There is this thing called the manosphere, which is a collection of feeble websites dedicated to complaining about feminism, in the most destructive ways. The members criticize feminism, but do it in a cold-hearted way. They use words to strip women bare, revealing secrets that are better left left concealed, without providing something better—or anything for that matter—for the women to cover themselves. So, women deny what is written, to preserve dignity.
I always provide a means of redemption, so women can accept what I write. I strip off filthy, tattered rags and provide the pure, clean, white linen worn by those who have received divine forgiveness through the sacred heart of Jesus Christ. Then women can go on with their lives, better than they were before, in security and happiness, ready to live decently!
So, how do we get past rape culture? The concept of intimate relations as a sharing of one to another between two lovers is rooted in religion. Use of the reproductive system is legitimate only for reproduction, where the couple is open to new life. But if left completely to nature, human mating is reduced to a male chasing down a female, and holding her in place as he performs the mating act with zero regard as to whether or not the female wants to, and then the male leaves to hunt for some other fertile female!
Christianity is not gone yet. It still holds great influence over laws and lives in the West. Belief in God causes rational males to seek consent from the female before mating her. That is evidence of Christianity at work in our culture. In non-Christian cultures, women are treated so badly Westerners find it shocking!
In Arab nations, rape victims are tried and executed! In sub-Saharan Africa, save among Christians, thirteen-year-old girls are put on display with their bare breasts oiled, so the village men can come to examine them. If one of the men wants a girl for sex, he takes her by the hand to the witch doctor, who mutilates the girls genitalia so she won’t experience sensual pleasure!
Then, the man takes the girl into his hut and defleurs her. If he wants to have children with her he’ll keep her for a while. Otherwise, he’ll cast her out on her own, and find another girl when his primal urge returns! Male monogamy is never even implied. If a man wants a ten-year-old girl for his wife, he will kidnap and rape her.
If her parents report the crime, the man can offer to the court that he will take the girl to marry. This is considered good fortune by the girl’s parents, because girls are a financial burden. In other words, there’s nothing to stop pedophiles.
Also in Africa, witch doctors teach the false doctrine that having intercourse with an infant girl will cure a man of AIDS! So, there is no law against that either!
In India, if a brides dowry is insufficient, the husband’s family burns her to death, so the bridegroom is free to find another bride who hopefully has a more generous dowry! In South Korea there was seen a store sign that read,
“Virgin Brides for Sale! If she runs away during the first year, we’ll replace her for free!”
Talk about objectifying women! In China, female babies are frequently aborted, because the parents want a son instead! Wives are not permitted to divorce their husbands, but husbands can divorce their wives for any reason! In Japan, 45% of the women ages of 15 to 35 years plan never to date, marry or have intimate relations at all!
Japan is investing heavily in robot technology to handle the coming worker shortage. They could simply adopt Christianity. If the women were treated well, they would be happy to marry. As the West moves toward secularism, women will be treated more and more like dirt, without them even noticing.
Satan’s voice resonates through social-media echosphere claiming, no matter how cheap, dirty and dehumanizing to a woman, as long as it’s her choice, it’s empowering! The rational view is it’s just another punishment for sin; a variation on self mutilation!
In non-Christian societies, men are free to go out drinking at night and to sleep with other women, while their wives remain at home with their children. In India, no woman is allowed out past 10:30 pm. The police enforce the curfew. Men have no restrictions.
Everywhere Christian influence is lacking finds women severely oppressed. Divorce by suicide is common. That’s when a wife kills herself to get away from her husband! She leaves her children motherless! That’s how bad it is for women in non-Christian cultures!
If a Muslim girl converts to Christianity, it is perfectly legal for her male relatives to have their friends rape and beat the girl every day until she converts back Islam! That’s considered the merciful alternative! If her family turns her in to the authorities, she’ll be tried and executed!
The most powerful aspect of Christianity is it’s teaching on sexual morality! A Christian girl is taught to keep her virginity until her wedding night, to give to her bridegroom in exchange for his name, that the child she conceives for the man be blessed of her holy and chaste womb.
A Christian girl is taught to be modest in dress and bodily demeanor. She is taught to avoid privacy with males she is not related to, and to avoid playing contact sports and other activities that could result in a ruptured hymen.
She is taught to recite her daily Rosary to obtain the grace to avoid private exploration forbidden to the female. She is taught to never initiate contact with a male, because it’s cheap and tawdry! No girl wants to appear desperate! She gives up all her leverage! Rather, she offers prayers of petition that God will lead an upright man to her, to be her husband.
She keeps busy with charity work, academic studies, physical exercise and prayer, so she can better herself as a complete person. He value as a bride is beyond compare. She shuns beverage alcohol, tobacco and drugs! She doesn’t go out after dark without a male chaperon. She prizes the gifts God has given her, but looks first toward the Giver of all good things.
She avoids dating until she is ready to begin reproduction, because a date is a mutual job interview for the position of spouse. When she begins dating, she dates men at least ten years her senior; men who are established and mature enough for commitment. Each suitor must first meet her father, and pass his muster! Boys her own age have nothing to offer her, because they aren’t done being boys.
She will not date one man exclusively until she has a diamond on her finger worth two months of the man’s before-tax income! During her engagement she expects respect toward her body. Her fiancé is keenly aware that she respects herself, and never would a man be given the chance to touch her indecently a second time.
She understands that males have needs, and she doesn’t care. She knows male-female equality is realized only if the man places the innate needs (security and commitment) of his love object above his own base urges, making of her a true equal to himself, because he loves her more than he loves his own body! This is the man willing to give his life in defense of hers and those of her children!
She observes her father’s curfew for her, being obedient to him to bring honor to his name, because he loves her, and she loves God. She obeys her masculine authority figure as if to Almighty God! Would a man use ruse or guise to attempt to lure her into seclusion, The Blessed Virgin Mary would alert her to the man’s crooked devices!
She would follow her father’s instructions, and say, “My father does not permit me to be in private with males I’m not related to.” In the event the man persists, she can brandish her Rosary beads, and implore The Heavenly Father’s divine mercy and grace to defeat temptation!
A man of high esteem in God’s eyes shall know he has found a priceless treasure, for the girl who is obedient to her father will make a fine obedient wife. The chaste, obedient girl is blessed with a fertile bounty, because any two are never without the third. Her womanly cycle is completely predictable without fail. She has not experienced sensual pleasure, so she is free from sensual guilt, and consequently she does not experience premenstrual syndrome!
She is thrifty, hard working and intelligent. She has earned her own money as a babysitter, and learned valuable skills in the process. She’s saved enough money to cover college tuition her first two years. If she receives a three-point grade-point average or above during those years, her parents have agreed to pay her way for her final two years.
She knows her only hope to receive a higher education, and simultaneously preserve her innocence, is to receive the sacraments, and recite her Daily Rosary to keep temptation at bay. One of her teachers at Catholic elementary school, a nun, also warned her to keep a ten-foot radius between herself and any automatic wash machine on spin cycle, at least until after she is married. What looks like a harmless home appliance has led innocent girls into Hell!
God will use her to reform her fallen roommate, who wasted no time actually losing her bra and panties on a night of partying! She said, “Where did you lose them? And why don’t you just go back there and retrieve them?”
The roommate replied, “I think I would do that if I could remember where I was when I removed them!”
She said, “OHHH! That does create a problem! I hope there were no males present at the time?”
The roommate replied, “OH, are you a lesbian?”
She replied, “Of course I’m not! Why would you ask me that!?”
“If I took off my bra and panties somewhere, but there were no males present, the only possibility is girls. If you hope no men were present, you must have been hoping that I’m a lesbian.”
She said, “OHHH! I get it now. You’ve done a shameful thing and lost you undergarments as testament to your sin! That is really tragic!”
“It really is.”
“I’m glad you agree!”
“Yeah, usually when I get home I wonder if I had a good time. So, I throw my panties at the wall. If they stick, I had a good time! Now I’ll never know!”
She said, “I don’t think I want to understand any more!” And she knelt down before her crucifix, made a Sign of the Cross, and then said,
“The Holy Rosary of The Blessed Virgin Mary, to implore the intercession of the Eternal Blessed Virgin on behalf of the chastity, fertility and obedience of all white females everywhere!”
Then she recited the Rosary and went to sleep.
The following night her roommate was going out partying in too-short denim cutoffs, a bikini top, a sheer throw-over and high heels! Her cosmetics were obscene!
The good girl said, “Did Satan dress you!? If it’s not for sale, don’t advertise it! When men look at you dressed like that, they’ll have only one thing on their minds, and it won’t be your worth as a prospective bride!”
The roommate replied, “You are never going to have any fun! My parents aren’t rich like some of the other girls here! I have to rely on my body to get what I want! That’s why I go to the rec center every single day! The less clothes a girl wears, the less she needs to buy. This outfit will open doors you’ll never enter! It will earn me privilege you’ll ever have! It will get me drugs, drinks, and a really good time!”
“I know what it will get you! You’re going to attract wrong kind of guys; the kind who like to punish bad girls! You’ll never know exactly when or where! You’ll just feel something isn’t quite right!
“After you’ve been raped and assaulted, no one will care! They’ll say you were asking for it! Then, all the guilt for your past sexual sins will be revealed, and you will rue the day you lost your virginity outside the sacramental bonds of Christian marriage, to a boy’s empty act of lust!”
“You are horribly mean, bitch! How could you want that to happen to me!? I know how to handle myself! No guy is ever going to trick me like that! Give me some credit for having been around! You don’t know anything! You’re probably still a virgin!”
“I never said I want you to get raped! I’ll pray for God’s protection upon you! I’ll pray that He will overlook your sins until you learn! But God has already told me you won’t learn the easy way! He’s told me that until you suffer the penalty for your sin, my words will fall on deaf ears. I at least wanted to try. It’s your life. I can’t live it for you. I hope you have a good time and get home safely.”
“OK, thanks. I didn’t have the best role models growing up. It’s a wonder I didn’t turn out worse. If I’m not in the middle of the excitement, drunk, with men fawning over me, I feel so alone and sad, like life is just empty and not worth it. When I’m intimate with a guy I feel closeness, and that I am wanted. I just need to feel wanted!
“I hate the way I feel when I’m alone! I’d rather risk being beaten and raped than be alone. If it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen. There’s nothing I can do to stop it.”
“Jesus Christ was crucified, died and was buried. He rose from the dead, and ascended into heaven. He is the only begotten Son of God. He died as atonement for our sins. Why don’t you look toward heaven, and ask Jesus how you could avoid being raped.
“Just confess your sins in number and type, with contrition and a sincere desire to repent, and claim the perfect living sacrifice of Jesus to atone for your sin. Then, ask your heavenly Father for His mercy and forgiveness through the sacred heart of Jesus. Finally, ask Jesus to enter your heart and to live there.
“God doesn’t ask you to be perfect. He just wants you to resist temptation a little more each time it comes. In a short time your habit of resisting temptation will be stronger than your sinful habits. If you cannot resist temptation, pray for grace from God. If you still can’t resist, don’t hide your sin from God. Invite Him into it with you. Do not try to hide yourself from God.
“Be honest with God. Tell Him the temptation is too much for you to resist. Wait a moment. If the temptation remains, tell God that you know it’s wrong, but you’re going to do it anyway. That way He can teach you about why you commit certain sins, and the roots of emotional wounds within you; the emptiness and fear.
“He’ll show you with His Spirit those dark, wounded areas in your heart. And you’ll see there’s nothing all that scary in there! As you allow God into your sin, and make the journey with His Spirit into the hidden recesses of your heart, all the hurt will be carved out, leaving a void for Him to fill with his divine love!
“Forgiveness cost’s you nothing. It is a free gift from Jesus! You just need to claim it! It’s really fun to receive divine forgiveness; so much fun that I sometimes sneak a cookie when my Mom isn’t looking, just so I can ask God for forgiveness!
“The key is not to make excuses for sin. God will excuse any sin for those who have an excuse. He will make the excuse to cover all sins for your whole life. You never be required to come before His throne again, because He knows you have valid reasons to commit sin, so you’re not actually guilty of wrongdoing.
“If you ever commit a sin that is your fault, you can approach God to confess, and receive forgiveness. The only sin a girl cannot confess to God is sensual pleasure! No father will hear such a confession from his own daughter, least of all her heavenly Father! To receive forgiveness for that you have to confess to it to your husband and he will inject his intimate gift of forgiveness deep inside you!”
“Forgiveness erases all guilt, whereas an excuse does not. To receive divine forgiveness, one must be accountable. No one can receive forgiveness who is not accountable in her own mind. Do you want me to type this out for you?”
The roommate said, “What a trip! You’re not going to guilt me into anything, no matter how long-winded you are! It’s my right as an American citizen to dress the way I please, go where I please, when I please, and do what I please; all within the bounds of the law, of course.”
“I know you’re eighteen, so that’s barely legal. But you might want a legal opinion on your outfit.”
“Ha Ha Ha! Real funny! I think we could get along if you kill the judgmental-bitch part of you!”
“I tried to help you. I pray that God protects you.”
The roommate replied, “I know my way around on the street! I don’t need God to protect me! I can take care of myself! Now, just shut up! I don’t want to hear any more!”
The good girl held her tongue and silently prayed. The naughty girl went out to party. It was Friday night. By noon Saturday she hadn’t returned. Good girl called campus security to report her missing. The security officer said, “Is there anything else you can tell me? Do you have any proof she’s in danger or met with foul play?”
“Well, not really. I don’t know her that well. We just became roommates this last week.”
“OK, I’ll take that as ‘no’. If it makes you feel any better, there are always some girls on campus who like to stay out all weekend. If no one has seen or heard from her by Monday, you can file a report.”
“But you didn’t see how she was dressed! It was scandalous! I just know she’s in trouble! I just know it! God told me this was going to happen! Please, you have to find her! I just have this feeling something terrible has happened!”
“OK Miss Hearst, here’s what I can do: I’ll send an emergency-alert email alert to every address within the campus domain, and notify the police, sheriff’s office and hospital Emergency Rooms. It would help if have a photograph of her.”
“I took selfie of us the day we arrived. Just tell me where to send it.”
“Here, just send it to my phone. And send your number too, so I can call you if she turns up. You have to realize no one has any idea of even where to start looking. And we don’t have the personnel to track down every girl who stays out all night.”
Good girl breathed a sigh of relief. At least something was being done. “Thank you for doing this. I feel a little bit better now.”
“I’m glad.” The officer left. The girl knelt before her crucifix, made a Sign of The Cross, and prayed, “Dear Heavenly Father, I give you all glory, thanks, honor and praise, because these are due exclusively to Your Holy Name.
“You told me that naughty girl might not be able to reform without adversity to open her eyes to the error of her ways. If I just wouldn’t have prayed for her soul, then you wouldn’t have allowed her to suffer adversity, because, without prayers of petition for her, you would have let her continue on her present path.”
Then she picked up her Bible and opened it to Mark 9:43-48
- If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter into life maimed than with two hands to go into Gehenna, into the unquenchable fire.
- And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter into life crippled than with two feet to be thrown into Gehenna.
- And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. Better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into Gehenna,
- Where the worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched …’
“Dear Heavenly Father, why did you have to show me this?”
Almighty God replied, “Behold I, yes I, The Lord God Almighty speaks to his faithful handmaiden, ‘You do understand that her suffering will be the very minimum necessary to effect change in her life. I want no one to suffer. It is not I Who causes suffering, but the father of lies: Satan! But My hand restrains Him! His minions shall not touch her life.”
“Oh, thank You Father. But couldn’t you just take suffering out of the world and be done with it? I mean, why is there suffering? If You can do anything, and You love us more than anything, why don’t You do something about it?”
God answered, “Sin blinds mankind to truth. It is the blindness that causes suffering when men, and women, fail to observe My Commandments. One such Commandment is that girls remain virgins until their wedding night.”
She said, “I understand. People make their own suffering. Good night Father.” Good girl slept. Sunday morning naughty girl’s bed was empty! No word from the campus security office yet. Good girl then sent out a text to everyone in her phone.
‘Please pray for naughty girl! I haven’t seen her in two days! She left scandalously dressed Friday night!’
A few hours later naughty girl walked in smelling like alcohol. She had a black eye, bruises and cuts on her face. She was wearing different clothes, and her shoes were missing. Good girl shrieked, “OH MY GOD!! YOU HAVE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL!! WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU!!”
Naughty girl slowly whispered through tears, “I don’t know how it happened! I took a ride with four guys and another girl. I wasn’t paying attention where we were going. They seemed really friendly. We went inside this house and did some coke. Then one of the guys asked me to pay for the drugs I snorted. I didn’t have any money. So he said, ‘You can work it off!’ He grabbed my arm, dragged me into a bedroom, and locked me inside. I didn’t have time to grab my purse.
“I pounded on the door to be let out. A guy I hadn’t seen before came in. I tried to get past him, but he forced me back in the room. I fought back, but he hit me until I stopped. Then he raped me. While he was inside me he said, ‘You’re getting what you deserve! You’re nothing but a whore!’ After he finished, he got up and said, ‘That really felt good!’, and he took my clothes.
“Another guy came in, and he raped me. This went on with different guys for hours and hours. If I objected, they beat me.”
Good girl cleaned the cuts, applied ice packs to her face, held her in her arms, and said, “We have to photograph your injuries, and get you to a hospital! Do you remember where this happened? Can you describe where it is? We have to report it.”
Naughty girl continued, “Maybe after a day or so some guy came in the room, and gave me some clothes to put on. He blindfolded me, and led me out to a car. He said, ‘Here, drink some of this’, and handed me a bottle. I drank a lot of it to dull the pain. The car stopped, and he let me out. He forced me to give him my phone pin. After a few minutes he said, ‘I know where you’re from and where your parents live. If you report what happened, they’re dead!’
“Then he told me to wait ten minutes before I took off the blindfold. I heard the car drive off, and I waited about ten minutes. I was in some industrial park. He had left my phone and purse on the pavement. I called a taxi to pick me up. I’m afraid to report this to police! My parents could get killed because of me!”
Good girl said, “I’m sorry this happened to you. I’m so grateful you survived. If I could take the pain away, I would. But you could use your story to teach other girls to remain chaste! There’s great healing in that!”
Naughty girl’s bruises and cuts healed in a few weeks. But her heart would take longer. She quit drugs and drinking. She became a Catholic, and received the sacraments of Baptism, Holy Communion, Penance and Confirmation. She remained chaste. She felt like a virgin again.
Whenever she saw another girl on the road to being raped, she offered to tell her story of the fallen woman now redeemed.